5 Things I Wish Every Couple Knew Before Their Wedding Day

1. It’s Okay to Do Things Your Way

This is your day. It should reflect you as a couple, not what anyone else thinks a wedding should be. Whether you want to get married in a backyard, wear sneakers under your dress, or skip the cake cutting altogether, that’s perfectly okay. There are no rules that say you have to do something just because it’s “tradition.” What matters most is that you feel comfortable, seen, and happy. The more your wedding reflects your true personality, the more meaningful and unforgettable it becomes.

2. Don’t Wait Too Long for Photos

There’s so much going on during a wedding day and it’s easy to push off photos because everything feels rushed. But your couple portraits are one of the only times you’ll get to slow down, breathe, and just be together. That time is special. Try to plan at least 20 minutes into your timeline right after the ceremony or during golden hour when the light is soft and warm. You’ll not only get the best lighting, but you’ll also capture real, emotional moments while it still feels fresh and magical.

3. Weather Doesn’t Ruin Love

I know how heartbreaking it can feel to wake up to clouds or rain on your big day, but trust me, weather cannot take away the beauty of your love. Some of the most emotional and breathtaking weddings I’ve seen happened in unexpected weather. Overcast skies bring a dreamy softness to your photos. Rain adds movement and romance. If you embrace it instead of stressing over it, the day will still be everything you hoped for and more. The real magic is in the way you look at each other, not the forecast.

4. Your Vendors Are Your Team

We’re not just showing up to work, we’re showing up for you. When you connect with your vendors and let them in on your vision, it changes everything. We’ve seen it all, and we want to help make your day smooth and joyful. If you’re not sure about something, ask. If you’re nervous, talk to us. We’re here to support you from start to finish. When everyone’s working together with care and intention, it takes so much pressure off your shoulders and helps you stay in the moment.

5. Don’t Forget to Just Be Present

So much planning goes into a wedding and once the day starts, it can feel like everything is moving fast. Try to pause and take mental snapshots. Hold your partner’s hand. Look at the faces of the people who came to celebrate with you. Listen to the laughter, the music, the vows. Those tiny moments will stay with you long after the day is over. This is the start of a new chapter, and it deserves to be felt deeply. Give yourself permission to enjoy every single second.

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