5 Things I Wish Every Couple Knew Before Their Wedding Day

1. It’s Okay to Do Things Your Way

This is your day. It should reflect you as a couple, not what anyone else thinks a wedding should be. Whether you want to get married in a backyard, wear sneakers under your dress, or skip the cake cutting altogether, that’s perfectly okay. There are no rules that say you have to do something just because it’s “tradition.” What matters most is that you feel comfortable, seen, and happy. The more your wedding reflects your true personality, the more meaningful and unforgettable it becomes.

2. Don’t Wait Too Long for Photos

There’s so much going on during a wedding day and it’s easy to push off photos because everything feels rushed. But your couple portraits are one of the only times you’ll get to slow down, breathe, and just be together. That time is special. Try to plan at least 20 minutes into your timeline right after the ceremony or during golden hour when the light is soft and warm. You’ll not only get the best lighting, but you’ll also capture real, emotional moments while it still feels fresh and magical.

3. Weather Doesn’t Ruin Love

I know how heartbreaking it can feel to wake up to clouds or rain on your big day, but trust me, weather cannot take away the beauty of your love. Some of the most emotional and breathtaking weddings I’ve seen happened in unexpected weather. Overcast skies bring a dreamy softness to your photos. Rain adds movement and romance. If you embrace it instead of stressing over it, the day will still be everything you hoped for and more. The real magic is in the way you look at each other, not the forecast.

4. Your Vendors Are Your Team

We’re not just showing up to work, we’re showing up for you. When you connect with your vendors and let them in on your vision, it changes everything. We’ve seen it all, and we want to help make your day smooth and joyful. If you’re not sure about something, ask. If you’re nervous, talk to us. We’re here to support you from start to finish. When everyone’s working together with care and intention, it takes so much pressure off your shoulders and helps you stay in the moment.

5. Don’t Forget to Just Be Present

So much planning goes into a wedding and once the day starts, it can feel like everything is moving fast. Try to pause and take mental snapshots. Hold your partner’s hand. Look at the faces of the people who came to celebrate with you. Listen to the laughter, the music, the vows. Those tiny moments will stay with you long after the day is over. This is the start of a new chapter, and it deserves to be felt deeply. Give yourself permission to enjoy every single second.

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The Things Nobody Tells You About Your Wedding Until It’s Too Late

Everyone talks about how magical your wedding will be, but nobody really tells you what it’s like behind the scenes. As someone who’s seen a lot of weddings up close, I can say this with confidence — there are things that catch every couple off guard. So here’s what I’ve seen, what I’ve learned, and what you’ll probably wish someone told you sooner.

1. You Might Not Eat Until Late at Night

You spent all that time planning the menu, but chances are you’ll barely touch your plate. Between the ceremony, photos, and guests pulling you in every direction, eating becomes an afterthought. Have someone set food aside for you. Bring snacks. Do whatever it takes to keep your energy up, because you won’t realize how hungry you are until it hits hard.

2. Your Dress Will Start to Feel Like Armor

It looks great, but after a few hours it gets heavy, tight, and kind of annoying. The straps dig in, the fabric gets hot, and your feet are over it. That’s normal. Most people are dealing with it but smiling through it. Just know you’re not alone if you start counting down the minutes until you can change into something comfortable.

3. People Will Cry at Weird Times

Somebody’s going to get emotional in the middle of something random. It might be during hair and makeup, or right before the cake gets cut. Weddings bring up a lot of feelings for people. Let it happen and don’t stress about it. That’s just how it goes.

4. You’ll Care Less About the Decor Than You Thought

All those tiny details you obsessed over kind of fade into the background once the day starts. You’ll remember how the room felt, how your people showed up for you, and how your partner looked at you. The vibe is what sticks with you, not the table numbers.

5. Your Photographer Will See Everything

We’re there for the whole thing — the nerves, the sweat, the chaos, the calm. Don’t worry about looking perfect in every frame. That’s not the point. What matters is capturing the day as it actually felt. The good stuff lives in the in-between moments anyway.

6. Something Is Going to Go Wrong

It could be a timeline delay, a missing item, or something completely random. But it will happen. What matters is how you respond. Most couples laugh it off or don’t even notice because they’re locked into the moment. Keep it moving and focus on what’s actually important.

7. The Day Will Feel Like a Blur

You’re going to wake up the next morning and wonder how it went by so fast. This is why taking it all in matters. Make time to breathe, pause, and really look around. Trust your team to handle the rest. You’ll be glad you did.

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