The Things Nobody Tells You About Your Wedding Until It’s Too Late
Everyone talks about how magical your wedding will be, but nobody really tells you what it’s like behind the scenes. As someone who’s seen a lot of weddings up close, I can say this with confidence — there are things that catch every couple off guard. So here’s what I’ve seen, what I’ve learned, and what you’ll probably wish someone told you sooner.
1. You Might Not Eat Until Late at Night
You spent all that time planning the menu, but chances are you’ll barely touch your plate. Between the ceremony, photos, and guests pulling you in every direction, eating becomes an afterthought. Have someone set food aside for you. Bring snacks. Do whatever it takes to keep your energy up, because you won’t realize how hungry you are until it hits hard.
2. Your Dress Will Start to Feel Like Armor
It looks great, but after a few hours it gets heavy, tight, and kind of annoying. The straps dig in, the fabric gets hot, and your feet are over it. That’s normal. Most people are dealing with it but smiling through it. Just know you’re not alone if you start counting down the minutes until you can change into something comfortable.
3. People Will Cry at Weird Times
Somebody’s going to get emotional in the middle of something random. It might be during hair and makeup, or right before the cake gets cut. Weddings bring up a lot of feelings for people. Let it happen and don’t stress about it. That’s just how it goes.
4. You’ll Care Less About the Decor Than You Thought
All those tiny details you obsessed over kind of fade into the background once the day starts. You’ll remember how the room felt, how your people showed up for you, and how your partner looked at you. The vibe is what sticks with you, not the table numbers.
5. Your Photographer Will See Everything
We’re there for the whole thing — the nerves, the sweat, the chaos, the calm. Don’t worry about looking perfect in every frame. That’s not the point. What matters is capturing the day as it actually felt. The good stuff lives in the in-between moments anyway.
6. Something Is Going to Go Wrong
It could be a timeline delay, a missing item, or something completely random. But it will happen. What matters is how you respond. Most couples laugh it off or don’t even notice because they’re locked into the moment. Keep it moving and focus on what’s actually important.
7. The Day Will Feel Like a Blur
You’re going to wake up the next morning and wonder how it went by so fast. This is why taking it all in matters. Make time to breathe, pause, and really look around. Trust your team to handle the rest. You’ll be glad you did.
Want a Photographer Who Gets It?
I’ve seen the good, the wild, and everything in between. If you want someone who keeps it real and captures the full story, I’m here for that. Reach out here and let’s talk about your day :)
